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my sister moved back in


Question Posted Monday September 2 2013, 2:01 pm

Thank you so much for your advice I mean i have been trying to stay away from the house by spending the night at my aunt's house almost everyday I go home every other day and I try to stay away from her to keep from getting hit because I know if she hit's me it's my natural instinct to hit her back and I am not going to Jail over her it's not worth it . If she hit's me in front of her kids is that considered abuse of her kids could I get her charged with child abuse ?
The reason i am asking this is because she has hit me in front of kids before . I don't really want to press charges because I don't want her kids to see their mom arrested but I will if I have to for my own protection .


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adviceman49 answered Monday September 2 2013, 2:11 pm:
It is not child abuse for children to see adults fight. It's just not good parenting. Domestic abuse is when two adults by and get each other as to who goes to jail is generally determined by who is hurt the most one that is for the most is generally considered the victim You can and you should try to get away from her if she tries to get you then you go to the police.

The police generally do not like to rest parents in front of their children they will do everything they can not. Generally what will happen if they can is to take the person outside to talk to them at that point they will make the arrest placed him in handcuffs and put them in the police car. The children will be told that mommy or daddy whatever the case maybe needs to go and talk with the police and I'll be home in the morning.

I think it's important to have your sister removed from home. I don't think it is good for the children to watch their mother to beat up on their Aunt. This sets a very poor learning example for them so the right thing to do is if your sister is hitting you and beating you causing you injury then it is time to bring the police; of course the choice is yours

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