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Possible pregnancy symptoms after losing my virginty


Question Posted Thursday August 22 2013, 9:50 pm

I'm 15 years old, 5"4' and 106 pounds. I lost my virginity a week ago to my boyfriend who I've been with for a year and a half. It was both our first time. We used protection, and found it difficult. He couldn't insert it at first, and was only halfway in when he did get it in because I was in too much pain. He went fast at first so that I could loosen and then went slowly. He pulled out a couple of times and that was about it. The condom was all wet when he pulled out but id imagine it would be since he was in me. I remember my legs felt tingly and the day after I had a little bit of blood ( very little, it came out pink). I noticed it the whole day everytime I wiped myself after urinating. It's been a week since and I'm very worried. I've been needing to use the bathroom a lot, I feel depressed, I get my appetite randomly and lose it easily, i felt a little bit of tenderness in my breasts last night and they almost look like they got a little fuller (but then again i think that a lot, its just a pigment of myimagination because I've been a 32a forever so I'm always hoping they'll get bigger), I find it a little bit harder to tuck in my stomach (even though I've always had a belly I feel like I need to put a little bit more effort into it), and I just feel a lot of bubblyness and movement in my belly. My boyfriend says that I'm just over thinking it and that it's just me feeling symptoms because I think I'm pregnant when I'm not. I've felt this way before whenever we've messed around prior to us losing our virginty. Could I possibly be pregnant? I have no way of telling with my period because it is irregular.

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Xui answered Friday August 23 2013, 12:57 am:
Sounds like you are over thinking it...

Pregnancy symptoms don't usually show up a week after intercourse. The hunger and urinating can also be related to a varity of other things. Stress, Medications, and even an on coming menstrual cycle.

Seriously chill out, If you miss your next period THEN you have a reason to worry.

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lightoftruth answered Friday August 23 2013, 12:09 am:
You probably have nothing to worry about as long as the condom didn't break.
Over thinking it and stressing out about it isn't going to help even if you are. If you're still worried about it in a couple weeks, take a pregnancy test to be sure and to ease your mind..unless you get your period before then.

I'd also suggest if you are going to be having sex again, to get on some form of birth control. You don't want to be freaking out each time you have sex and you don't want any accidents to happen.

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Sweetne answered Thursday August 22 2013, 10:58 pm:
Hey, look don't worry too much about it. First off, yeah it was probably Your semen that was on the outside of the condom. If the condom was placed the right way on your boy friends private & it didn't pop then you don't have anything to worry about. I think I thought just about everything that you have been thinking lately the first time when I had sex. I was a virgin but the only thing about my my experience was that my "cherry" didn't pop because I never bled. Actually, the first couple of times when I began to have intercourse with my boyfriend it was painful for me (and he wasn't a virgin). It's painful for all girls their first couple of times. Anyway, these "symptoms" you're talking about, don't worry about it too much, at all. It's Probably paranoia. For example, the bubbles you felt in your belly... I felt that too. I can't explain to you Why That happens but That still happens to me when I have sex with my boyfriend and we've been together for 8 months and w do it often. And I use to be paranoid a lot just because I thought I might be pregnant. I'm also an A cup and I always think my chest has gotten bigger since I've had sex. When I first started thinking that it was because I would get paranoid about getting pregnant. And I don't anything about your lifesryle but you might feel or think you feel depressed because you're paranoid. Bottom line, don't stress yourself. When your period comes you will be relieved. If you're still scared then don't have sex again at least until the next time your period comes. Like I said, there's a chance that youre not pregnant. The bubbles in your stomach may not mean anything harmful. I still get those. Your appetite n etc. may just be your paranoia right now. Don't stress yourself! Just don't have sex for a while. By the way, it must have been really painful forp you the first time you did it Because he went fast & that's rough. The first couple of times I did it my boyfriend went slow and didn't shove it and force it. The blood you've dropped could be from your cherry being popped. Every ones body Is different and there can be different reaction. Hope this helped to ease your mind. Always be safe!

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