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annoying clingy boyfriend(long) (I cheated on him to make him leave me, but he forgave me!)
Im 18/f and I've been dating my boyfriend who's 21 for 4 years now he's rude and selfish and I've been forced to live with him for two years cuz I have.no family where we live. I've recently been cheating on him and I confessed to him and he forgave me because I forgave him in the past and to be fairly honest I did not want him to forgive me. I want to be with the other guy because he is the sweetest and most kindest man I've ever met. But my boyfriend treats me lime a five year old he needs to babysit and is smothering me I hate being around him but I feel guilty when I think about leaving how can I get out of this or make him leave me..hes so bad his own family doesnt come around
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You arent being forced to live with him, If you wabt ti leave then leave. Stop making excuses for yourself.
This relationship died a long time ago, Your boyfriend is insecure and that is why he took you back.
If you are nit happy then stop stringing him along, Grow some balls and tell him. As long as you pretend to be happy, You will be miserable.
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You just leave. How are you forced to live with him? You can get an apartment as well, or live with a friend, ect.
Cheating to make him leave is just a dumb idea because a lot of people actually forgive them.
You're not happy, you're stringing him along, he doesn't treat you right. I don't know why you feel guilty about leaving him. You should feel guilty for staying with him.
You just need to move on with your life.
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If you want to leave... then leave. You're not really being forced to stay with him. You can get an apartment same as anyone else and do whatever you want. Cheating to make him leave you is a bad idea... most of the time it doesn't work. You'd be astounded at how many people just forgive for fear of being alone. It's sad, really.
So... just leave. You're 18. You're an adult. Stop playing this like a game and just go. He will fend for himself and tread water like everyone else that gets dumped. It's not your problem.
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