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Did my mom have sex?
So about a year ago my mom met some dude named Jim. One night I was at my dad's house (divorced parents) and he had trouble breathing so he tried calling my mom but she wouldn't answer. So he just drove us there (because he REALLY needed to go to the hospital) and waited for my mom to answer the door. It took about five mins of knocking and waiting before she answered. She was wearing a bathrobe and she said she was sleeping and her phone was off. There was a pair of Hanes on the floor in the living room. Jim's truck was parked behind my mom's SUV. She made me go to bed and then jim left. Do you think she had sex that night?
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The answer to your question is most likely she did. If so what is the big deal. Mom is a single, divorced, women. An adult entitled to a sex life if she wants one.
Mom was not flaunting her sex life in front of you. She invited Jim over on a night you were suppose to be at your dads. It is unfortunate that dad had to take you home and you may have disturb her while she and Jim were sharing an intimate moment.
Mom also did the right thing when you arrived home unexpectedly. She sent you to bed then sent Jim home. She put you ahead of her own needs or desires. That is what a good parent does. Mom could have just sent you to bed and crawled back into bed with Jim to finish what you interrupted and then sent him home. But she didn't.
Don't think bad about mom just because she was probably having sex with Jim. She and your father are divorced. There is nothing between them to keep either of them from having sex with anyone they want when they want too. Your father too may have a sex life of his own, though like your mother when you are with him he does not flaunt it in front of you.
You have good parents you should love them both. For from just this writing I can tell they both very much love you and that speaks volumes about them both.
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She probably did.
Was there something wrong with it? I mean she and your father are separated right?
Anyways, to answer your question, she most likely did. I mean I wouldn't know for sure because I wasn't there but the signs point to yes.
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I think it is possible that your Mom had sex... but I wouldnt know for sure. I think the real question is: are you concerned that your Mom might have slept with a guy that's not your Dad? If so, you did say your parents are divorced and therefore your Mom is free to see/date whatever guy she likes. Kind of sad, but true. My parents are divorced as well and my Mom currently has a boyfriend. It can be odd to see your Mom with another guy, but it will happen as long as your parents are divorced. Same for your Dad. One day your Dad might meet a woman that he likes and start dating her. What you need to know is that your Mom and Dad made a decision together not to be with eachother so they could both be happy with someone new. That could be happening right now for your Mom or in a week or several years for your Dad. Either way, your parents would want you to know it was for the best. If you feel like it, you could ask your Mom about Jim and see what she says. I think I'd ask her if she likes Jim as a boyfriend and then you would know. You can inbox me if you'd like to talk more.
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