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Cute Guy at Welcome Center I want to talk to part 2
Okay, so I finally talk to the cute guy who works downstairs at the welcome center, and he's so much cuter when he talks. So on tuesday I went down to check the mail and he told me it would be $5,kidding of course so i got the mail but I had to come because another department's mail ended up in ours. So i went back down and asked him if could return it, and he looks and smile and says "i'm gonna tell" Flirting? or am I over thinking it. So later in the day I had to go back and check the mail (it comes twice a day) and he saw me walk up, and he said nothing new has come in since I was last there, but I should check anyway, since I'm already here. So I did. He gave me the mail bin and turned to his computer but didn't do anything and was drumming his fingers on the counter, like he was waiting for me to say something. I was about to, when a person came up and asked him something. So was he flirting or am i reading too much into this. But it seems were past the awkward stage, so what should I do now? Advice desperately needed.
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It does sound like he's kind of flirting/teasing with you. So that's a really good sign.
I think he wants to talk to you, so while you're down there next time, try talking to him a little more. Maybe something that reminds you of your family, and then talk about a story and ask him about his family. Or something that you're interested in, try to turn it into a conversation. If he continues with the conversation, you know he's interested in.
If you're feeling bold, give him your number or ask him for his.
I would find something that can be easily talked about but only enough to where it won't distract you from work too much. Just a short conversation. Something that interests you, or a movie that's coming out or a place you love to eat at and maybe he'll go with you ;).
So just go with the flow, and make conversation and possibly give him your number.
Good luck!
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Guys don't know how to talk to girls and this is during work hours so you are limited to have some significant conversation. According to the steps of relationships thing I've written and share with many, you are barely into the conversation stage. Make a little note to hand him next time and write inside it, would it be okay with you if we traded phone numbers to keep in touch and talk outside of work? That is very clear and he should know that he has to make the next move and say yes or no. For the future, I have posted the steps to relationships
The Normal steps to a Relationship
Attraction: Whether just plain looks or a pheremone attraction. It doesn't mean that either one "Likes" the other yet so it is important to go beyond the staring at stage to conversation.
Conversation: Now you are talking and find that you like the persons sense of humor, how they think, their beliefs or way of living life...this is the teaser...either you decide you want to learn more in depth about the person or you decide you don't have enough interest from the conversation to want to learn any more. Someone not interested stops talking to the other and looks elsewhere. If both want to learn more about the other, you start dating.
Dating: Dating is not all about calendar appointments to go to a movie or out to dinner, or out dancing. It is a time to learn what you like and don't like about the opposite sex. Find out more about the person you have interest in which happens only if you start seeing each other regularly making it a conscious choice. If there are too many dislikes, start over again with someone new. Or take this to the next level. Usually a move to being a steady couple happens automatically without any conscious thought.
Steady relationship: This is meant to be a time where you have plenty of opportunity to spend in each others presence getting to see how they handle themselves 24/7 under all sorts of conditions, their good days, and bad days. Many choose to live together at this time. There isn't much that can be hidden when you live with someone, like their housekeeping habits, what their usual diet is, any mood swings, and by now there should be a good idea of what their normal sexual habits and needs are. You don't want to get matched up with someone who is the opposite libido level of yourself.
Committed relationship: Here there are vows and oaths made to each other, a professing of mutual love and devotion for each other and it goes beyond words to living it out daily in how one treats their partner. This person will be your life mate with a marriage license or without one.
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