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Cute Guy at Welcome Center I want to talk to
Okay, so there is this unbelievable cute guy who works downstairs at my building's welcome center. I saw him when my supervisor was showing me where to get our mail in the building.So ever since then I've been crushing on him from afar. Like I only talk to him when I ask him if I can check the mail, and its so quick that there's like not a chance for me to introduce myself. And like today i went down to get the mail and I was leaving and he walk by and I smiled and he looked away. Am I weirding/freaking him out? Cuz i have check the mail on the days i work, so its my job, but I only work 3 times a week and go down there once on the days I work. So I don't know, what to do? and im getting close to the point of giving up, but i don't want. I just get really nervous when i talk to cute guys ugh, help!
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Like the person below said, you can either say something or you won't. I mean you can't always leave it up to him to say something to you so you might as well take the initiative and introduce yourself.
I doubt you're freaking him out. You only go down there a couple times out of the week.
I think he'll think it's nice that you introduced yourself. Just build up the confidence and say something like, "I've seen you around a lot and I never got your name." So then just introduce yourself as well. Then when you go down there you can say hello and eventually start having small talk, ect.
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You have two choices: Say something or don't. If you don't say something, you'll never know what could've been. YOU NEED TO SAY SOMETHING. I can't tell you how many times I have thought a guy thought I was weird or something because when I would look at him, he would look away or never say something to me. But guys can be as shy as girls when it comes to the approach. People have this idea that guys are supposed to say something first but that's not always the case.
A few weeks ago, a new guy started at my workplace. I always caught him staring at me but he would never say anything. Finally, idk what gave me the courage, but I walked right up to him and said "So when are you going to take me out?" We went out the very next night and he told me that guys LOVE when girls make the first move because it's a nice surprise when they don't have to do all the work.
I know rejection sucks but what's the worst that can happen? It's not very likely that he'll be mean. And if he says no, well you won't be off much worse than you are now with NO communication at all. Good luck!
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