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i need too know how can i catch my dad cheating on my mom
I am a male my dad has cheated on my mom 2 times before and i dont know how she foregave him well any ways i think my dad is cheating on my mom again when he takes a day of f of work he is never home and he is making up fake emails and facebooks the problem is that i cant catch him cause he has a password on his iphone so any adviceon how to catch him
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I don't think there is really anything to do.
You obviously shouldn't go tell your mom just in case he isn't cheating.
It's best you don't get involved anyways because it's their relationship. Of course it involves you since you're part of the family, but it's not your place to get involved.
If this is really bothering you, you should talk to your dad.
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My advice is not to try. Whatever is happening is between your mom and your dad. She has forgiven him twice before and most likely will do so again if she were to find out or be made aware of this.
For you to intercede and try to discover your fathers affair can only cause trouble for you. Not knowing either of your parents I really can't say what is going on between them. It is possible that mom has come to terms with your fathers affairs. It is even possible that they have come to some sort of agreement that as long as he keeps these affairs quiet and out of sight. Does not bring any disease home to you and her. She is willing to live with the situation.
There are many reasons why mom would be willing to do this. The biggest one would be you and any siblings you have. She may rather live with the situation then break up your home. Once you and any siblings are finished with College then she may decide to take a different approach.
Since you have no idea of what your mom may be thinking or accepting; your interference may be unwanted. Instead I suggest you be supportive to your mother and help her in any way you can or she asks.
Don't rock her world or yours by trying to find out something that truly is not yours to do anything about. Also remember that your dad, even if he is cheating on mom, is still your dad. If he is not neglecting you in any way. If he is showing you the love and affection a dad should show a child. Then he is doing right by you and has earned the right to be your dad and to be loved as a dad. Your respect for him may be tarnished but he is still your dad.
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