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Is that normal??
I'm a 13 y/o girl and i recently got a boyfriend about a month ago. When ever i try to talk to him on facebook or texting him he uses short replies and doesn't tend to be interested in talking. He never initiates the conversation and i have to ask questions to keep the conversation going. He hasn't even asked me on a date since our second date, which was ages ago. I don't want to keep pestering him, so I don't ask to meet up with him either. I'm starting to think that he doesn't actually like me :/ Is it normal for teenage boys to not necessarily talk to you? Or is he just afraid of annoying me? Should i break up with him?
Thanks :)
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Most guys I know don't care for texting.
You should probably just talk to him about this. He most likely doesn't even realize he's doing it. Just tell him how you feel and in the end, make sure he realizes that your conversations should be initiated equally. If he doesn't like texting or messaging on Facebook, then maybe phone calls will work. Try to compromise.
You'll never know what he's thinking or feeling if you don't talk to him about it.
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I think you should talk to him about it. One option could be is that he doesnt even know that hes doing this and its not fair to you to be in a relationship that you are not happy in because hes not making you happy! being open in a relationship is the best advice i could give you because then everything is on the table and both of you know how each other feels! i really hope everything works out for you.
Kaaitlyn
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I don't know how often you are contacting him but there is a natural amount of contact and then there is too much attempts to contact all the time which will push some guys away. They don't respond well to needy girls, it kills their interest. Or He may be the quiet silent type instead of talkative guy. If its just texting, I have found even many adult men are not into typing much at all that includes, texting, emails, FB. etc. I don't really know what this guys personality is to give a good answer. But any friendship should not be like pulling teeth. It should come easily. So give it some more time and if it doesn't change, find someone who is more like you and enjoys not only communicating and talking a lot but doing things together in person.
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