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My friend is copying my ideas
My friend and me used to have a blog together but that didn't work out. So now I tried to be an instagram admin because I want to talk to random strangers and hod what I see other people do on my personal account. So I asked my friend if she wanted to join, because we are best friend and she's wanted to do stuff like this too. But them a week later she texting me and telling me that she made one. I was like ok cool!! But then I see that she has way more followers than me. I mean it's fine but this always happens. She always takes my ideas and does it better than me. What should I do?
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It really sucks that your friend is using your work to get the glory.
At least you know that in the end, your the one who actually did the work.
Jealousy sucks. It can also ruin your friendship. I really like the advise below about trying to make the best of it by asking how she does it. At least being friendly about it.
Then you can just improve yours from there. Hard work pays off.
It wouldn't be a good idea to confront her about it because she probably won't stop the blog, she'll just make it worse and it'll become a competition.
So try talking to her and seeing what little things she does to get so many followers and then improve on what she says.
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Jealousy is normal, but you should never be jealous about someone else's work. Think of yours as better and try to improve it so that it ends up showing in the final product. She's your best friend, so don't be scared to ask her for tips or do it in a friendly way and shocked way, like 'wow! how did you get that many followers!' and let that help you!
Improve your blog so that it looks much better than hers and share it around. But NEVER give up.
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