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Potential Love? Or just good friends?
Ok. So I was in Marching Band last year (my 8th grade year, going to be Freshman) and i met a guy (Sophomore, going to be Junior) We didn't really become friends till AFTER field season. It was at a districts performance, we started talking about a TV show we both like. After i performed (Color Guard show for me. He was there to perform with our Drumline) he gave me a thumbs up. Then at a pops concert we talked, and i bravely asked for his number. He gave it to me. I was in a weird dress for my show and i told him i felt awkward in it he said "Don't worry you look good"(We texted alot after that.) I performed and he told me I did great. Awhile later (different day) We had grown pretty close, I texted him if i dressed like a slut. (My friends kept telling me i did the day before and i was upset and wanted to talk to him) he replied "I don't think you dress like a slut your beutiful" I thought that was a sweet of him to say. I was talking to him another day asking him if he's looking forward to graduate in two years he said not really, I asked why and he said becuase he'd be leaving me. I asked why and he said I was special and that he's comfortbale talking with me and that he doesn't talk to a lot of girls. The big thing though was today. I went to a music store, and he happened to have saxophone practice today. I was talking to the owner about french horns when he walked in (I havent seen him in awhile) and he waved awkwardly at me, i did the same and the owner looked back and forth between us, shocked. He asked me if i knew him and i nodded. They boy went to go practice and i ended up being given a lesson. We left our seprate rooms at the same time. I put the french horn away (I was borrowing it for the half an hour) and was moving to give the owner the mouth piece, but the boy walked up to me and held his arms out to hug me, he said some words but i forgot what they where. I hugged him happy. I then left, smiling the rest of the day. We have never really broken the touch barrier like that before and he initiated it. He also told me this year was the best of his life so far because he joined band and got to meet me. I think I like him(I'm not sure 100%) but does he like me? I'm confused, Please don't say anything about age.
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It does sound like he likes you. He is attracted to you physically and he obviously likes your personality.
I mean he is a good friend, but all good relationships start as friends so I think it's all good.
You should keep progressing this and try hanging out with him. I think he really does like you though.
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Oh Good God girl! Yes! He likes you. All good relationships should start as friends. Is he attracted to your personality? He said yes. Is he attracted to your looks? Yes. Does he feel comfortable and close to you? Yes. You both are at the point of deciding to date or not. Or just hang out as friends. I have the feeling whether you call it dating or hanging as friends, it will feel the same. So invite him and ask him to do special things with you, bike riding, going for walks, even watch a rented movie you choose together at home. If its meant to be, it will naturally develope on its own into something more. Don't worry about the age gap. When he graduates and you're still in school, if he's the kind of guy who finds it hard to talk to and approach girls, there's a very great chance he is going to wait around for you and not go off dating other girls.
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It's a possibility he likes you, but you two could just be really good friends. He hasn't shown much of the signs - Well, he could just not know how to act around you. He did say he doesn't talk to a lot of girls. Anyways, just try to stay friends for awhile and see what happens.
-Christina
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Anyone can be your potential love technically but just because you like him and he likes you it doesn't mean it will end in love. By what you said, yes, he could possibly like you. He seems sweet by what he says but the only way to find out is by asking him. It's not awkward, well for me anyways, but the worst thing he could say is no. Just shoot him a little text saying you were curious to know if he likes you.
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