i know i may sound uneducated but i need my worries to be put to rest. is there a possibility i may be pregnant?
Question Posted Sunday June 30 2013, 2:18 am
I am 17 years old and me and my boyfriend were 'grinding' tonight on his bed. I was on top of him when i felt something wet down there and i asked him if anything had happened. he went to the bathroom and changed his underwear and shorts because he said that he had ejaculated. I was wearing cotton yoga pants and underwear and he was wearing boxers and shorts. i know i may sound uneducated but i need my worries to be put to rest. is there a possibility i may be pregnant?
Even though the possibility is low, and I assume you are not on birth control, it would be in your best interest to purchase and take the Plan B pill. The plan B pill can only increase the chances of you not getting pregnant.
Being 17 you are well within the age limits of a Federal Law known as HIPPA. This law gives young people 14 years and older medical confidentiality relating to their reproductive system. Meaning you can make an appointment to see a doctor, visit a doctor and be examined by a doctor for anything related to you reproductive health. All with or without parental knowledge or permission. This would include asking for birth control medication.
Your doctor cannot discus with anyone anything concerning these visits or medical treatment you receive. This includes your parents, their lawyers and the courts. Your mother cannot be in an exam room with you if a doctor is going to do any type of female exam unless you give written consent to the doctor for mom to be there. The same is true with medical information. The doctor needs your written consent to release it and then only to those people you give consent. You cannot be forced to give consent.
Given your age you should be carrying a health insurance card with you at all times. This is all you need to visit a doctor or hospital. Your parents insurance company does not require parental permission to pay for any treatment you seek or require absent a parent or in the case of treatment under the federal HIPPA law.
This law was not meant as a license to have sex. It is meant to give young people the right to seek medical advise that they might not otherwise seek without this law. Given that you are somewhat sexually active, grinding, unless you have objections to birth control. I would suggest you see your GYN and ask for birth control medication. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Sunday June 30 2013, 3:56 am: It's really unlikely. It's actually a little weird that he ejaculated just by grinding. Anyways, sperm isn't smart or anything. So since you were wearing clothes, I don't think it could have gotten through. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday June 30 2013, 3:51 am: Thats quite a lot of layers of clothes for sperm to get through so its highly unlikely. But if it looks like you may soon be progressing to more like mutual masturbation, then its best you get on some kind of contraceptive. Grinding is not going to be satisfactory for you both for long.
If you or he were touching his penis only when he get a couple drops of precum on the tip and then you or he used your fingers to finger you...then the sperm transfered by hand has a chance of impregnating you if you are at the ovulating time of your cycle. At your age, it is when many girls go for contraceptives. If you dont have to tell the parents, just go to see planned parenthood. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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