My guyfriend texted me sayin he felt used by me so we had to talk about it he said he wasnt upset with me later i tried callig for many hours his phones were busy what do i do
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday June 16 2013, 1:51 am: Texting, writing on FB and phone calls are not the proper way to work out issues in a relationship.
This is best done face to face. This is where you can watch the persons eyes, their facial expression or body language and know how they are feeling. There are things you can pick up on in person that in this texting generation, the skill has been lost because even talking on a phone is seldom done. This is not good for relationships. Communication is one of the key things important to a healthy relationship, another is trust, and yet another, a willingness for both to put in equal effort to work on the relationship. He said, I am feeling used. He did not say, you are using me, right? If so, he said so correctly. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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