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I believe my dad is cheating on my mom
I am wondering what I should do.
About a week ago i saw my dad on the computer and walked up to him and he was on his email. All I saw was the emails subject and it was a little bit offensive but it said "I want you inside me right now".
Once my dad noticed me behind him he minimized the window.
After that I just walked away and then looked back at what he was doing again and he went back to the email looking really shaky and nervous.
Then about 5 minutes later he came to me and said he will be right back he is going to the gym and left.
I went on his computer and checked the history and it showed his email address he was just logged into and I have never seen it before.
So I am wondering is this reasonable suspicion to think he is cheating and what should I do?
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Your suspicions may be right. What to do about it is nothing.
You could challenge you father about what you saw and what you think is happening. He will most likely tell you your wrong and then you and he will have problems between you. He may even go to your mother and tell her you are a liar and trying to start trouble.
If you go and tell your mom what is happening she may be hurt or will be hurt by this news and could end up hatting you for telling her. For then she may have to act on something she may have suspected but was able to ignore without proof.
This is bad situation for you to involve yourself in. No matter what you choose to do you are the one who will be hurt the most. If your mom eventually finds out and chooses to do something about it. Then be there for her but do not tell her you had seen evidence of his cheating before.
This is what's called a damned if you do or damned if you don't situation. Regardless of what you do you are going to get hurt. My job is to try and minimize the hurt to you and why I have written what I have.
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It does sound suspicious! You have two options.
Investigate further and find out if you are right or wrong. If you are right, be prepared to face it. If you are wrong, breathe a sigh of relief.
Your other option is to leave it alone and let your parents deal with this themselves. It is something that will affect their relationship, and is probably best sorted between them alone. But in a way it will also affect you too.
Make your choice- and good luck!
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