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its been too long..
its been far too long since me and my ex broke up, a year.. and i still haven't moved on, i don't understand why? i obviously can't forget him, and i know he probably doesn't even care anymore.
That feeling is still there.. theres moments i just think of him constantly, I don't know if its the memories that im in love with stil or? , I miss the old him but i know you can never go back and fix something that is broken now.
A few weeks ago everything was going good, our conversations were really good like the old times as friends, and now he ignores me or he replies cold.. I think hes found someone or likes someone?
I go out, ive met other people but i still can't move on and i really wanttt to :/
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When I had to break up from a relationship, I got some advice from my angels. It was to meditate and imagine myself and him connected at the middle by one of those ribbons you might see at the finish line of a race. Then I saw myself also as a 3rd person with scissors in hand. I was told that if I chose to not cut the ribbon, I would forever feel a tie to him. If I did cut the ribbon, it was severing our connection in all memories, even in my mind. The reason it is so important is that I had to do this for my subconscious mind to see. Our subconscious is where all our feelings and emotions are. This should help your subconscious mind catch up with your conscious mind. I did cut the ribbon and found it easy to move on.
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If you're still talking to the guy, you're not allowing yourself to move on.
I was with this guy a couple years ago. I continued talking to him but I was also seeing other people. I was wondering why I couldn't get over him. Once I cut contact from him, I was able to move on. Of course I still think about him and the memories but the feelings are gone.
I think you're still hoping for more but you actually realized it won't happen so you do want to move on.
So if you seriously do want to move on, don't talk to him anymore. Don't have him as a friend on facebook, delete his number, ect.
It will take awhile to get over him, but it'll be ten times easier when you're not still talking to him.
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The reason you can't move on is because you are still in contact with him. You are allowing yourself misery and are preventing yourself from moving forward.
Him acting cold towards you, Obviously he has no desire to really have any sort of relationship with you. It is unfortunate that he can't be upfront about it, but you should ve getting the bigger picture.
Forget him, He is the past. Stop contacting him and move on with your life. Start over
Never allow a man to give you the power to crawl back, Women shall have more backbone then that
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