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A Predicament
So there's a guy I met a few moths ago and he saw me and I "caught his eye" (btw so sweet :) ) and we started talking and he fell for me, and I fell for him a Little bit. So we became super close friends (we are both 14) and he helped me through a break up with my obsessive boyfriend and it just felt like he was always there for me. And he's absolutely SUPER CUTE AND SWEET. So we were talking about hanging out and dancing and we did both, but while we were dancing, our eyes met and we kissed (under the moon and it was so romantic)
And we lied down and I fell asleep in his arms and he just sat there brushing my hair an trolling me i was beautiful. But, he's going to a different high school then I am. We really want to date, but we won't see each other very much. I really want to date him and he wants to date me. But we have a distance issue. Please help me! Thank ya! :)
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Makes me curious how you met to begin with unless you were at the same highschool but his family is moving to another school district.
Either way, he sounds wonderful. If he still wants to keep in touch and see you...catch a bus on the weekend to see each other. Or your family is planning a fun family day, ask if you can invite a friend along. Let them know its a friend who is a male, and refrain from saying boyfriend if your parents have a 'dating' age boundary. Thats a way to hang out together, but no privacy..yes. its better than not seeing him at all.
During the week, as long as you can get your homework done, spend time on facebook or texting or on phone together. As soon as you get to driving age, it should be easier to keep in touch.
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Well that's sweet. This whole situation is really up to you. There isn't really a right or wrong option.
If you decide to stay with him, you'll have to be able to handle not seeing him every day. Of course, I see that as a good thing because when you spend so much time with someone, it just turns into a routine and you don't get as excited to see them. I think seeing someone on the weekends is best because you can focus on school during the week and then look forward to seeing him on the weekend.
Or you could just end it and move on because you are only 14 and you can date other guys that you could see more often.
So how big is the distance? Is he in the same area but just goes to a different high school or does he live like an hour or so away?
If he's in the area then I think you'd be able to handle the distance. At least you won't be those annoying couples at school who hardly let go of each other. You guys could have great space but still have a good relationship.
It's all up to you and how you'd be able to handle it.
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Oh no! Your predicament sounds like problem in a romance film!
Theres only 2 options here:
1) Try and make it work somehow. Be faithful, and attempt a long distance relationship, despite knowing it could go horribly wrong...
2) Break up- it was a one time thing. Youre only 14, and you'll always remember your super romantic moments together as part of your teen years. Saying goodbye is one of those bittersweet moments in life, unfortunatley.
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