i dont no what to do: I am 15 and desperate for sex
Question Posted Monday May 27 2013, 11:43 pm
i don't know what to do im 15 and desperate for sex does that make me a slut? what should i do to have sex?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? rainhorse68 answered Wednesday May 29 2013, 5:07 am: Hi. I can appreciate you've got some properly womanly needs and urges going on at 15. Be odd if you hadn't. But really, having sex just for the sake of having sex isn't at all likely to be a great experience for you. You might think...well guys have sex just because they want it...even if they don't have any really close connection with the girl? And you wouldn't really have to 'do' much at all to attract a willing chap. But it will be much nicer, especially 'first time' if it's with a guy you trust, a good bit of mutual respect there and a solid attraction to HIM, not just a desire to have sex in itself. Fair comment? [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Tuesday May 28 2013, 6:02 pm: It doesn't make you a slut. I hate when people use the word slut because they just throw the word around.
In actual definition it means a woman considered sexually promiscuous.
You haven't had sex, you just want it.
Wanting sex isn't wrong, it's normal, especially at 15. Your body is still growing and your hormones are going crazy. But having sex can results that you don't want. Pregnancy, STDs, and then emotionally suffering. Everyone handles sex differently but a lot of young teenagers regret it because of the crazy impact it had on them. They just weren't emotionally ready for it even though their body was.
You're body is also still growing so it'll hurt to have sex.
Trauma answered Tuesday May 28 2013, 5:52 pm: It doesn't make you a slut at all. At your age, your hormones are in overdrive, so a high sex drive is normal. I wouldn't necessarily recommend acting on these urges, though. I know it's frustrating to have such strong urges, but you should be careful not to do something potentially dangerous, or that you might regret later. Don't have sex until you're positive that you're ready, and if you do decide to go through with it, be safe. Take steps to protect yourself from pregnancy and STDs. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
santos answered Tuesday May 28 2013, 5:48 pm: DEAR YOU ARE 15 years old so in teen age is very tough situation .in this age everyone seek partner so you also but do not forget that age is very dangerious so do not desperate for sex you can do after 17 0r 18 because for 15 years teen sex is illegal ,concentrate you on your study and growth but you feel more excited you ,you can do masturbation but will do it when you naturaly excited,because if you do it daily it can lose your health [ santos's advice column | Ask santos A Question ]
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