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im not sure what to do about this guy.
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well, last night was amazing, we went to a couple different rivers before just chilling at a school. we danced a lot, and I swear he pulled off a scene from the notebook, I mean the dancing and the humming to make a song and everything. he pushed me on the swings, and made fun of my hugs. we were pushing eachother back and fourth and he pushed me against a fence, and held my hands above my head, but he never kissed me, I want to say I know he likes me, but its hard cause im usually blind to subtle clues. or even extravagant ones to be completely fair. what should I do? should I just let nature take its course, and take the days as they come, or should I say something or make a move or something. I need advice, please.
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Sounds like a wonderful guy. He finds something in you that he is attracted to. It is a good thing that he wants you to work on eye contact. The eyes are the window to our soul. Sometimes you can just see, feel, sense things about a person by looking into their eyes. For you to look away and not allow someone to look into your eyes may mean you struggle with being afraid of people seeing what is inside you, a fear of be intimate with another to the point that by one look at your face, they know what you are feeling or about to say. It could be hinged on having a low self image. Do you feel too plain or uninteresting inside? Thats so far from the truth because he is attracted to you.
Is he attracted to you only because he thinks you are an easy target to get the sex he wants? No I don;t think so. When he had you backed up against a fence and held your hands up, he did not kiss you or force you in any way. He is being a gentleman. It is so rare to find a man who shows you in this way that he is very attracted to you but leaves it up to you to make the first move when you are comfortable and ready. At the fence, he was leaving it to you to move to kiss him or ask him to kiss you. If I were you, I would get a self help book on boosting your self confidence and ask him to help you with the exercises in there and of course with the eye contact. Be willing to make the little steps but only if you really like him and want him to be in your life. Thank him for being willing to work this out with you and give him a kiss and tell him thats for him seeing something in you and not giving up on you. Enjoy your man honey, I think you have a keeper just like i have.
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