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masturbation - hes alllways horny
we masturbate together and hes horny again in a few min,.... is that normal? what do we do? should i help him every time? is it healthy?
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I'm assuming too that you're a young couple. and he's obviously very keen on you! Well, of course it's extremely pleasurable for us guys to get a handjob and ejaculate with our girlfriends. When younger there's often a 'how many times?' issue..once is great, so loads of times must be extra great! Likewise I assume you're 'helping him' right up to completion, ie. he ejaculates. So on to 'healthy'. A guy can't ejaculate too many times and harm himself in any way. As long as he gets and keeps an erection it'll keep on coming. Are you a normal, nice girl for doing it? As long as you're enjoying the experience and like making hime come, yes. I know you younger girls seem a bit stuck on this 'slutty' idea, that you might look a bit 'easy' if you enjoy sexual behaviour too much. All nonsense of course, if you're both enjoying yourselves, slutty just isn't in it. I'm sure he gets a big buzz showing you how much he's into you in a very obvious way. Worth keeping in mind that the sort of race to a 'finish' is a bit more of a bloke thing than a girl thing. You maybe enjoy him pleasuring you less frequently, but going on longer? Again, perfectly usual opinion. I suppose you might try a little 'see how long you can go without coming' game if you both like the idea? You pleasuring him in ways a bit less direct and less likely to make him 'go off' quickly? Add a bit of variety? But really, as you are there's nothing unhealthy going on here...as long as you're enjoying it too.
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Since you have not given your ages I have to assume you are both in your early teens. If so Yes it is normal for a guy to masturbate or even have sex and in a few minutes be ready to do it again.
For young men this will continue for most of them well into their twenties and early thirties if they remain healthy in all other respects. DO you have to help him get off each time he gets an erection when you are together? That is strictly your call. There are no hard and true rules when it comes to sex other than this one.
Sex between two people must be consensual or it is rape. It matters not if you had foreplay, mutual masturbation, just before or if you even if you have had sex once already Once one person says stop, or no that means you stop or you do not do whatever one of you wanted to wanted to do. To try to or not stopping is rape or sexual assault.
So in answer to your question; just because you got him off once you are not obligated to do so again . If you were forced to do so by him, even though you would be giving him sexual pleasure; it is still a rape of you by him. The rape would fall under the sodomy laws of your state.
Short answer to your question is: He is normal and no you are not obligated to give him additional relief.
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