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My sister and I fight a lot.
me and my sister are 3 1/2 years apart. she's sixteen. we used to get along a little until she was 11. I always try to talk to her but she tells me not to touch her and leave her alone. I can't talk to her about anything and the only time she wants to talk to me is when she wants me to keek with her and take a picture with her so she can act like we're the best sisters. we always fight about really stupid stuff and when my mom isn't here and were with our grandparents my nana always takes her side so if we fight ill get in trouble and get grounded and nothing will happen to her. she always gets her way and they never pay attention to me. I don't like that we fight because me friend and her sisters are like best friends and they talk about everything and they're 6 years apart! or 5. what should I do? should we see a therapist? but my parents might think it's not a big deal and it's stupid.so any ideas?
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This always happens, you may not even be friends until you are both adults, but, the sibling bond will stay. I hate to pull the 'Puberty phase' thing, but, that's what it'll be, just go your separate ways, and you'll reconsoliliate later. just don't see each other as much as possible, but don't hold malice against each other
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What you and sis are experiencing is normal. Teen girls going through hormonal changes will find they cry more easily, get angry more easily and just bicker over unimportant random stuff. Let mom know this is happening in case she has been out of touch and not paying attention. For anyone to take sides between two hormonal teen girls is not a fair thing to do. No matter if you started something or she did, the other can try to exercise self control and not be goaded into reacting. So either way I see it, both of you would need someone willing to be a fair referee. Talk to mom. Ask her to help you both. And both of you must talk without fighting and promise mom that you will drop whatever emotional thing you were going through the moment she points it out. Eventually as you both grow older you will be on good terms again. It's a temporary thing but get mom involved. She's been there too.
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