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Mixed Signals?
Hello! I am 14 years old, and a few weeks ago i met a really cute girl (my age) and i asked her for her number and she gave it to me. we talked for a few weeks and we got really close and i told her she was really pretty and she thought i was cute. i asked her one day if we could dance and then somehow, we ended up talking about kissing after dancing. Two days ago she told me she liked me, and i told her i liked her too but we didnt date. Recently, she cancelled dancing and hanging out. I'm not really sure what happened but i'm really confused. I feel really bad, as if it'S my fault because she wont talk to me now and i feel like i must have crossed the line somewhere but im not sure where. I've been nothing but nice to her. ANY HELP WOULD BE AMAZING! THANK YOU!
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That sorta happened to me too, though I'm 13. I started getting to know a boy, and he told me he liked me, and a said i did too,so we planned to go on another date to the movies..though suddenly he stopped talking to me on facebook or texting me and a week later i found out he got a new girlfriend...Though he thinks he's a player so yeahh... Anyway, as I'm girl i may be able to help...Maybe she met a boy...that's what happened to me! Or perhaps she realized she wasn't ready for a boyfriend, or maybe she's just a little bi***h who likes to toy with peoples emotions...Who knows!! Do what i did..move on!! trust me, she isn't worth it!
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Well it's definitely mixed signals unless something came up and that's why she had to cancel. But since she's not talking to you, then you know somethings wrong.
I don't think you crossed the line. So go talk to her and see what's wrong. I do agree with Dragonflymagic with the whole she might have felt hurt that you didn't ask her to be your girlfriend. I don't know if you call her or anything either.
So the best way to find out what a girl is thinking, is to just ask her. The best we can do here is just guess.
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You guessed it when you wrote the words "Mixed signals"
You showed the interest with asking for her number. Did you ever call her by the way? You show interest by telling her she's pretty, asking her to dance and kissing her after. That is not the actions of a guy and girl who are just friends at school.
I believe she was expecting you to ask her to be your girl, to date you, go out with you. So she gave you 2 days and since you had not asked yet, told you she liked you. But you did not ask her to start dating you. You did not cross the line what you had already done, you just didn't go far enough.
Go talk to her. Tell her you are new at this kind of thing and don't know how to go about asking a girl out and you're sorry if you hurt her feelings but that she is the only girl you are interested in dating so could she forgive you. Something like that should put everything right. If not, perhaps there is another problem and you will have to ask what that is.
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