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Question Posted Friday May 24 2013, 2:02 pm

im 13 male im sick of masterbating if any girls are intrested plz make a comment.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday May 25 2013, 12:08 pm:
The advice Zane gave you about looking for sex on the internet is good advice. There are people out there who do nothing more than lurk on the internet looking for naïve people like you that they can friend and eventually molest in the worst possible ways.

If you haven't heard of them they are called child predators. The most recent person of that nature to make the news was former assistant Football Coach at Penn State; Jerry Sandusky who is now in prison.

At your age the best and safest way to relieve sexual tension is Masturbation. Contrary to what you may think or have been told there is nothing wrong with masturbation. According to one survey 85% of us masturbate. Yea that includes your parents who when they make love most like indulge in what is called mutual masturbation as part of foreplay.

Yea I know TMI. though it had to be said so you understand that masturbation is normal. It allows you to get in touch with who you are sexually through self stimulation and fantasizing. There is nothing wrong with masturbation as long as it is not an all encompassing occupation. It is also normal for someone your age to masturbate as much as 4 times a day.

Masturbation is safe, something you can do in the privacy of your bedroom without being disturbed. Something that relieves the sexual tension without worry of getting a girl pregnant.

As someone who is a grandparent I do not understand why many parents sTill tell there children masturbation is wrong, sinful or dirty since 85% of those parents are masturbators themselves. Most of the organized religions including the Catholic church do not condemn masturbation.

My advice is to stick with masturbation for a few more years until you are old enough and mature enough to handle the real thing. Also DO NOT GO LOOKING FOR SEX ON LINE. IT IS NOT SAFE TO DO SO. YOU COULD BE HURT OR WORSE.

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Xui answered Saturday May 25 2013, 3:50 am:
This is not a dating site

Also as a minor, This is illegal as the age to consent in many places is 16.

Now please consider the dangers of engaging in sexual activity over the internet.....

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