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fingering late period


Question Posted Thursday May 16 2013, 7:21 am

I lost my virginity yrs bk wid my sex addict ex.. Nw m 22 n m wid a realy nyc guy. We dnt hv sex bt do othr thngs. 10 days ago he fingered me deep. He didnt ejaculate n i dnt thnk he evn touchd his penis. My period was due on 14th bt nw it's 16th n no periods. M rarely late. I feel dat m bleeding bt whn i chek it's a white/colorless discharge. M realy worried. I knw its sily 2 ask bt m i pregnant??? My exams r approaching, i cnt cncentrate bcz of ds tension.. PLZ HELP

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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday May 16 2013, 9:52 pm:
There are some sperm in precum. But if he didnt touch himself before touching you, there is no way to be pregnant. It's too early to take a store bought pregnancy test even if you wanted to for ease of mind. As has been said, stress and other things like even having a head cold or something can delay a period. It is normal for your body to have discharge. Its your bodys way of normally cleaning itself out. If there is ever discharge with burning or itching and a bad odor, then you want to see an ob.
Definately see your ob or planned parenthood about a good contraceptive. I and if you have a medical plan that covers it, I advise you to check out all the different types very carefully and look on you tube for videos by those who have used a particular contraceptive, why they liked it or what went wrong. The shot, the pill and the Mirena IUD all use hormones which many women are having not so good reactions to. Lowers the energy, lowers the libido for one and other risks. Not that everyone has these problems, but its something to be aware of so when you do decide upon one, you know what side effects to look for. When Mirena wasn't around all there was is the copper IUD. This is said to be the closest you can get to as safe as having tubes tied, But it is easily removed by dr. and no waiting period to try to get pregnant after removal. No hormones being released into your body. I used it way back when and in my opinion it still sounds like the best. But check them all out.

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DDiazella3 answered Thursday May 16 2013, 9:50 am:
You cannot get pregnant from a finger so don't worry about that.

This use to happen to me when I was in College also. It's stress probably from your exams. High amounts of stress can make your period irregular. Over exorcize, not eating enough and not sleeping enough can all cause your period to be irregular.
Make sure your eating healthy and getting enough sleep. Which will also help you make better use of your study time because you can concentrate better when you eat well and are well rested. Maybe take up some meditation or something to help you relax.

Speak to your boyfriend and make sure there was no Penis involved when you were messing around. After that consider going on birth control so you don't have to worry about this in the future. Ask your parents to help you find a GN your insurance covers or go to your local Planned Parenthood. Birth control will also make it so your period is never irregular.

Good Luck and take care :)

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