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I carved "ugly" into my arm
I have really large, almost buggy eyes that everyone makes fun of. they are big and they practically bulge. they're not that bad, but there's like a line under my eyes. they are blue. I have middle length blond hair that is really thin.. its light blonde and has a purple streak. I'm a girl, 13, and 88 lbs. , and 5 foot 2 and my breasts are 36B I'm not like stick skinny, though. I'm just skin, bones and muscle.
my best friends say I'm gorgeous and they wish they looked like me, but other people like some guys and girls say I'm ugly and weird. I get depressed about this, and one time I carved ugly into my arm with a pointy stick...
Do I sound ugly? I'm in middle school, also.
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Just block out the haters. They probably feel insecure about themselves as well. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. It may take some time for you to see your own beauty. Beauty on the outside doesn't matter anyway. Your inner beauty is all that matters. No one is ugly. You are beautiful no matter what they say. Words can't bring you down. Good luck :)
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You are gorgeous. Everyone is. It doesn't matter what hair you have or the weight you are. Everyone is beautiful. You are beautiful. You shouldn't take the anger and hurt and put it on yourself. I am here if you ever need to talk to someone. I don't judge people and I never will.
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No you don't sound ugly.
You're only 13, you're still growing.
Your friends think your gorgeous so why do you think they're lying and some other people are telling the truth? They know you better than the other people, they don't have any right to judge you.
I'm going to be honest, in life someone somewhere is always going to criticize you. No matter where you go. This world sucks but you can't let people like that get to you.
People think being skinny makes you beautiful or having perfect skin. It's all crap because of Hollywood.
Don't let people who talk about you take over your life. These people shouldn't matter to you.
Everybody gets talked about, even the prettiest girls get called sluts. So seriously, if everyone went around getting depressed over what people say about them, no one would be happy.
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You can not base what you look like now on what you will look like once your body has stopped growing. You may still have some growing into your body to do.
People can play compliments and not mean it. However I believe you can take what your friends say as the truth because they did not stop at saying how pretty you are, They added that they wished they looked like you.
As for the others that say otherwise, they are only 13 or so. They have so little life experience that they don't realize that their opinion of you does not count because it's all about personal taste. For example my personal taste is men with brunette hair rather than blonde or redhead. It doesn't mean the blondes and redheads are ugly, just that its not what catches my interest.
As for your eyes, it is normal for some eyeballs to sit further out in the eye socket. Not as many people have it but it might run in the family as any other facial features do. Do you have a parent, aunt, uncle or grandparent with eyes that are more prominent?
Most people today are so brainwashed by what Hollywood and beauty related businesses says are real beauties that we have no idea what a natural beauty is any more. What they show us is fake. Hollywood uses makeup to create optical illusions.
We think we see a long thin nose when it's actually wide.
Do yourself a favor and look up online
"Celebrities without makeup" If you havent seen something like this before, you're in for a shock.
For example, Jennifer Love Hewitt of Ghost Whisperer, does not look at all the same without the makeup and bra;s and tailored clothes that make her look like a busty goddess! At 54, I am as great a beauty rival for them as anyone with their makeup off. If its between me or them without makeup on, I bet there's many who would think I was a model or consider me appealing for their taste, over the celebs. I'll bet the same goes for you. Keep in mind you still have some physical growing to do. My vote is that you are not ugly. Enjoy life and enjoy being yourself. Don't ever try to measure yourself to someone else. Be proud of you and create your own style and look. Good luck dear.
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