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there, so here is one of the answers I got from asking similar questions elsewhere
"Even though she is very sorry for making the mistake and even though she regrets it, she is still a delinquent and has to pay for the crime that she committed. She should have thought about it before doing it. I am sure that she will be behind bars for quite a while. She is not a good example for your daughter and I think that you should raise her all by yourself. You can take your daughter to see her delinquent mother in jail, but I suggest you only take her once a week."
this seems kind of harsh don't you think? I never said I was going to break her out of jail or something. And also like I said she admitted what she did was wrong, she is not pretending any different
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She is already paying the crime. Your daughter is watching her sit in jail, feeling sorry for her actions. She's not watching her mother lie and think she didn't do anything wrong.
With these circumstances, she is being a good role model. You can see that she is sorry and getting punished for her actions.
You could go on and on about the "should haves". She should have done this, she shouldn't have done that or that, ect. But you can't change it, you can only move on and learn from it.
I know a 16 year old girl who visits her father every Friday in jail. He committed fraud and he's paying the time. She isn't turning into a bad girl.
Your wife is in jail, whether or not your daughter acts out, it wouldn't be because of visiting her mother.
You know your daughter best. So if you think it's a good idea, then I'm sure she'll be fine.
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