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Anonymous crush page
18/f, freshman in college. I asked this question before but I don't think I was very clear on some things. So, there is this anonymous page for my college on facebook, where you can go on and post who you think is cute, who you'd date, who you would like to get to know better.. that kinda thing. I posted one for this kid in my english class that I think is cute. All of his friends commented on it trying to guess who posted it for him. He commented "Okay, whose the son of a bitch? haha." I think that he thinks one of his guy friends posted it as a joke. Well, he deleted that comment than he posted, "come forward, person who wrote this." As I read that, I was thinking that I want to tell him it was me. But, I want to message him privately on facebook so all of his track and field friends don't see it. Or, me post it on the post for him to comment back that he doesn't feel the same. So, my first question is, do you think it would be weird for me to privately message him and tell him that it was me?
Secondly, I was going through his facebook a little bit and I saw that two months ago, he posted that he was celebrating his two year anniversary with his girlfriend. However, I am not facebook friends with either of them so I cannot see if they are still together. Plus, I don't know why he would ask for the person that posted the status about him to come forward, if he already had a girlfriend. So, my second question is, do you think that I should still tell him, even if he might have a girlfriend?
Thank you!
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I remember you. I answered last time. Since its possible he initially thought his friends were playing a prank, I can see him being at least curious since he changed his comment just in case it was a girl who wrote. That means he wants to know who it is so contact him.
What he does once he knows its you, thats entirely up to him. If he is not really into a girl but just dating around, that would leave him feeling open to date one girl exclusively if he has some interest in her and they really hit it off.
The dating period in our lives is a time to learn what it is that we like in a person of the opposite sex and we may have to date several different people to get a clearer picture. Just because a person is dating someone does not mean they have found the right person yet. Think of the movie, "The Notebook." Good example.
If you can get him chatting with you on facebook, take that time to ask lots of questions about him getting to know some things about him. I am sure instinct will tell you what to do at that point. If you need more advice, just write in again. Good luck!
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