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Bffs ex hookup buddy
So I am totally into my best friend ex fuck buddy what should i do? Is it bad to act on it? They haven't hooked up in over a year and she never admitted to liking him more than just a hook up.
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Perhaps they did not have enough in common and not enough chemistry to keep the relationship going. That happens to people quite often..enough sexual chemistry for a friend with benefits deal...I've done that, but those guys were not perfect enough to be a husband for me. Not that you're looking for a husband but any serious relationship...should have something in common. You will never know until you act on it. Let the guy know you are interested in getting to know him better. If there is a mutual interest to at least check it out, he will respond. Just because he responds doesnt mean it will work out yet. YOu'll both need to spend time together and get to know each other better before you will know if it should continue or not.
Your best friend should have no claims on him or proprietory actions towards him if she hasnt been with him in a years time. If she can't handle the fact that you are dating him, thats for her to learn to handle. A bad reaction of any sort will indicate you have a very immature best friend. You can't let her possible reactions or real reactions control how you live your life. If you do that, then there is something seriously wrong with you too and you might want to consider going for counseling. Good luck!
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It really depends on how you value your friendship with your friend.
If she has a problem with it, then don't act on it because then it will ruin your friendship.
If she doesn't have a problem with it, then you can do whatever you want.
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well you should ask her first on how she feels about it because girls are very touchy about guys they hook up or date.
-lola
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