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I would do ANYTHING for her
So i asked many questions about her, and decided to summarize everything. We are friends and we flirt sometimes, i tease her and she teases me also sometimes. But sometimes it doesnt seem like she likes me, there is a rumor some of her "friends" told us guys that she is in doubt between one of us guys, but he likes another girl, and me. But these are just rumors, so i dont really know what to do. I was planning to ask her out on my best-friends Facebook account since i dont have one and if she rejects me i can just pretend that i am my best-friend. What do YOU think i should do?
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Why do you want to ask someone out on facebook? If you are too shy to ask her in person, I would suggest you work first on overcoming your shyness.
Most humans are not mind readers. While girls like attention from boys, they will not respond well if at all to someone who only stares at her and never talks to her.
You cant judge a persons interest level if they know next to nothing about you...I'd say that's a good reason why she is not sure which guy she really likes. At this point all she knows is your face and his face. She doesn't know anything beyond what you look like. It might take good looks to get a girl to look at you but it will take a lot more to keep her interest such as giving her the opportunity to get to know something about your personality, what your hobbies are, what your likes and dislikes are, For example, are you really into dogs and love everything about them and have a dog walking job? Talk to her about dogs and find out what kind of pets she has, what's her favorite animal...that sort of thing. Don't bypass the friendship stage and jump ahead to dating the asking out girls stage. That usually is not long lived and very disappointing IF a girl were to even say yes. You are more likely to be rejected by a girl who has not had a chance to get to know you as a close friend first. If you took the time to get to know all about her...not from her friends but from talking to her, and spent time with her the same way her girlfriends do, I am sure she would be much more likely to want to date and go steady.
You did not list an age so I am assuming you may be very very young like still in grade school. If you are age 10 through 13. That is the stage at which to become good friends with girls. My nephew gets to know the girls first before he dates. He actually has dozens of friends who are girls. It will take getting to know several girls better before you begin to discover what some of your favorite traits in a girl are. Enjoy the friendship stage and don't worry so much about the dating stage yet.
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Don't ask her out on your best friends Facebook account. I really don't even understand how that would work. She would be answering to him if you went through his Facebook. She wouldn't know it was you. You can't ask her out and she'll say yes thinking it's him and then you'll be like, "Oh, by the way, it's me."
And if she says no, she'll be thinking it's him.
Anyways, I hate when guys ask me out over Facebook. I will never say yes because they aren't man enough to do it face to face.
So you should just ask her out in person.
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I think you should ask her out face to face, your way is kindof cowardly, sorry. But before you ask her out make sure you talk to her about her feelings and get it straight. So if she does like u, asking her out wont be as bad. Okay well good luck!
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