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I would like to know how i can tell if i'm Bisexual.
I think i am Bisexual but i don't know. I have kissed a girl multiple times, And the same person. But i am only 11 and i don't know what i should do! My mom asks if i am.. But i just say "Nope i'm Straight" The good thing is, If i she wont care. Because she has Lesbian friends and loves them like a sister too! I just want to know..
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It's highly unlikely that you're going to be able to nail it down for sure at 11.
Don't worry about it. Crush on who you crush on. Worry about labels in a few years. You know, like 5-10.
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Some people may think that because mom has lesbians friends whether she is also or not could have influence on you. That isn't the case. You must realize that mom is going to be a great open-minded person to talk to through all of puberty and dating and relationships ahead. Most kids your age don't have a parent they can talk to freely about anything, contraceptives, sex toys, how you wonder if a certain behavior from someone you know is sexual advances...etc. If mom is asking you, she doesnt want to make a judgement about you. I suggest that you eventually talk to her.
Right now with just kissing, that's normal curiousity, experimenting which you are more likely to do than most girls since mom has lesbian friends. What is openly discussed or going on at home will have it's impact on you even if its not directly at you in conversation or actions.
There is such a thing as a female being able to look at another female and just keep looking because she is so beautiful perfectly shaped. I have done that many times. Same as you viewing a beautiful multi colored sunset or a so-so sunset. That is not being bi. If when I see that body my mind starts imagining what her breasts feel like and crave to touch them, and have her kiss me, and want to do more with her...that is being bi sexual. It's not so much wondering what it might be like as it is really wanting to do it.
To be bi-sexual and know it means you have felt sexually turned on by thoughts of both guys and gals. If it's only gals, thens its lesbian, if only guys you are straight. Don't put yourself in a box yet and label yourself just one thing. You have lots of life experiences before you yet before you will have a good idea of what works best for you.
If you do start a convo with mom let her know you answered straight but that you really don't know and want to know but not be forced to go one way...just learn on your own. And ask if its okay to ask her questions sometimes.
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