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Hi again.
I really appreciate it your feedback on my question (About my mom and my suspicions on her affair) I was actually looking forward about having some sort of heart to heart with her after reading your response. Unfortunately, today after we all went out for dinner I heard my parents talking in their bedroom. I didn't want to intrude or overhear anything so just plugged my headphones in for a bit. After a while, my Dad gathered his things and ended up just leaving the house about half an hour ago. When I tried to talk to my mom about what happened she was angry and didn't want to talk at all, which I suppose is understandable. Now I'm just even more confused than before.
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Sometimes when a person drops the bombshell and the other person didn't see it coming, they don't know how to react and must get away to think things through rather than start to fight. Your mom looks like she'd have preferred for him to stay so she could tell him her story in more detail and why and all. So she is possibly angry because she see's this as him denying the problem or not wanting to talk about it. She needs to give him time. Once they both have had a chance to talk, perhaps then things will settle into a new pattern...whatever that may be. Hang tight then sweetie, and just wait for the time when your mom is ready to talk. Your dad will be needing your love and hugs too. Don't take sides if they both try to get you to do that. Parents don't think sometimes and unknowingly say things like that to the children.
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