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Lately I've been really horny?
I don't know why, but I've been really horny this past week. Is it because I'm fourteen and growing up? Whenever I cum, I just can't stop touching myself. It has to stop. I also get really wet in school. I can't really do anything about it then, and it's kind of embarrassing! Is there a way to stop this?
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Yes, it's because you're 14 and growing-up! You seem to be beating yourself up a bit with the 'It's got to stop' comments...like you're trying to kick a bad & damaging habit? There are reasons, you have one already, why a young lady feels extra horny from time to time. Also, the part of your period you'll know about (menstruation) has it's flip side (ovulation) during the month. An it does make women feel extra horny a lot of the time. I very much doubt you're the only girl getting wet in your class, but it's not anything anyone else in the room will know anything about, is it? You might sort of 'blush' a bit but there's any number of other reasons why a girl might do that. In short, nobody will look at you and know you're getting horny. As you say, it's hard to deal with it during school time, and it will tend to distract you from your lessons a bit. How about trying to focus really hard on whatever you're studying and promising yourself in return the 'reward' of really enjoying yourself later, when you're at home? As for actually stopping it, well you can't. Think more of controlling it for a while. In your own private time, it hasn't 'got to stop' by any means. It's an enjoyable, pleasurable and life-affirming thing. A real 'gift to yourself'. There to be enjoyed, and proving that you're a perfectly healthy and well-adjusted young lady with everything working properly. While it's true that at your age the urges can pop up perhaps a bit more frequently and intensely than later in life, an older woman can just as easily find herself feeling really wet and horny at work, where it might be equally hard to relieve the tension. You're OK...and like we said, you're the only one who knows for sure when it's happening so no embarrassment worries. Most girls of fourteen who are at a similar level of physical/sexual maturity as you could have written what you have. Other girls might find it happens a bit later, say 15 to 16, as humans don't all develop at exactly the same rate. Relief beforehand might stall it, but it does tend to work better for us guys. You ladies can stay feeling horny longer than us, and of course if you don't feel hot before school, there's nothing there to relieve is there? Do we get aroused at awkward moments? Like at school? Bet your life we do! In fact, if you're at a mixed school there's quite probably a lad or two who feels pretty pleased to see YOU!!
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It is most likely hormones from growing up, yes.
However, if you are particularly stressed, this can actually cause a rise in libido, as sex releases stress-reducing chemicals.
Personally, I get extra horny near and during my period.
Every woman has a cycle, and their libido may rise and fall during this cycle. So you may feel extremely horny one week, and pretty disinterested another week. It is normal and nothing to be concerned about.
If it is causing any disruptions or distractions, sometimes 'relieving' yourself beforehand can help. Such as, before you go to class, satisfy yourself, so that it may hold you over until school is over. Otherwise you might just have to try to find a way to think about something else.
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