|
My dad walked in on me fingering myself, what do I do?
Okay, so a few hours ago I was fingering myself, and my father walked in. He stared at me for a few minutes, and then went to his room. I tried asking him if I could talk to him, but he said he was busy, what do I do? I'm scared he'll tell my mother.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Doesn't Fit Any Of These Categories?
He's probably more scared and embarrassed than you are. Not because you're disgusting or weird or anything, but just imagine yourself in his shoes. Awkward! There's nothing to do here. Just let it go. He doesn't want to talk about it and that's a good thing. My guess is that he's not going to tell your mom. He wouldn't know how to bring it up or what to say. Even if he does, so what. This is something that most everyone does. You're not going to be in trouble or anything. Just lock the door next time!!!!
]
Whoops! Mate, it'll have been as embarrassing for him as it is for you. Really, it's one of those things any parent knows their children do from a certain age, but kind of pretend they don't know. Just let it ride, and don't force the subject up. Your mum will know too, even more than your dad. They might discuss it a bit when they're alone. And the result will be an agreed 'well, we can't keep her a little girl forever. She's growing up.' And I think it's extremely unlikely either will ever mention it to you. It'll quickly pass. It's not like you've been caught doing something criminal, or doing hard drugs. Then your parents would go in hard and you WOULD be in the doghouse. And quite right in these cases. Take "I'm busy" as 'it's acknowledeged and accepted and you don't need to explain anything'. There's an understanding and love going on here that YOU will have with your own kids one day, trust me
]
More Questions: |