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Three years and it needs to stop


Question Posted Friday April 12 2013, 3:18 pm

I use to have a best friend 3 years ago. We talked about everything and he haven't talked at all. Arguments and police have been involved twice because harassing text messages they called it. I'm gay and a few years later he came out saying he was. He harassed me over the internet calling me names from facebook and on twitter. After we graduated high school all these happened. When school started back in the fall he met new friends and haven't talk to him at all. He apologized and wanted to become friends again and he started back with all the harassing again and calling me a stalker. I ignored it. So, he went to school hours away but in the same state and our town we live in now. It's very small. I seen him last night and ignored him and he was following me in the parking lot last night at walmart and I drove away. He didn't wanna talk. We both have restrainting orders on each other. About 2 years ago. I need to tell him something when he came out that I really like like him. But he called the police on me saying I was harassing him. I don't think or worry about him anymore. But what should I do? I blocked all contact from him and got a new number and blocked all friends who are closed to him that I was close to too with him. including his family. help what should I do?

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lightoftruth answered Saturday April 13 2013, 2:15 am:
He was the one being immature. You're doing the right thing by not talking to him at all.
I do believe you have done everything you can do in this situation. You've gotten a new number, don't have the same friends, called the police and have a restraining order.
Since you live in a small town, you're bound to see him every once in awhile, you can't do much about that.
Just keep doing what you are doing.

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Xui answered Friday April 12 2013, 11:02 pm:
Continue ignoring him, He sound extremely immature.

If you see him again, Ignore him. If you show you don't care soonet ir later he will get it. I am not sure if you still do, but what exactly is there to like about a person that is so much drama?.. You both had so many issues that you had to fild a restraining order against one another. Let him play a fool, You move on and meet someone else.

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