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Am I in the wrong?
My husbands friend has been making sexual comments to me and my husband is blaming me. He told me it's because my shirts are 'too low' The shirt I was wearing sits above my cleavage. I have never been unfaithful or given him any reason to think I have been. Lately he's been making me angry because he doesn't seem to trust me. Am I in the wrong for feeling angry? how should I deal with this? I've tried talking to him but he doesn't listen to what I have to say.
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When his friend is making those comments, what is your IMMEDIATE reaction? Your husband might be jealous.
You should 'lay down the law', and tell your husbands friend not to talk to you that way, and you should tell your husband to defend you from it.
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There are always two sides to every issue though based on what you have written I would have to say you are not wrong. Your husband seems to believe whatever his friend is telling him rather than what you his wife are telling him. This to me is a big red flag in your marriage.
Trust is number 1 in any marriage. Why your husband is choosing to defend or believe his friend over you is what you need to find out and either put a stop to or figure out if you want to stay in this marriage.
From what you have written it appears you husband values his friendship over his marriage. This is not good. Marriage counselling could help with this.
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