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Do I let her go
I have this best friend.
Best friend in the entire world.. we are literally inseperable. She understands me better than myself sometimes.
But the only thing is, she always is botherine me. I dont even know why, but it seems like everytime I am not with her, I am annoyed with her. I am so tired of thinking about her literally 24/7, it is just overwhelming. However, when I am with her, I am so happy. So, my qustion is: what do i do? keep or around, or get out. She is sucha stress in my head but socially she is my best friend ! Also if someone knwos why I think about her so much, please tell me. I literaly have no idea..thanks!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you think about her as much as you do the feelings could ve much deeper then just friendship. May e you think about her cause you wanna be with her. And you miss her when she's not with you. My advice would be. T maybe try out a relationship with her take the step from friend to more. .
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I'd keep her as your best friend. It doesn't seem like she is doing anything wrong from what you have told us.
You just need time for yourself. Find other things you enjoy doing and then you can also hang out with your best friend sometimes. You don't have to hang out all the time to be best friends.
You probably just need some space and more time for yourself to not be thinking about her all the time.
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You've become dependant upon her. Sometimes when we around someone so much we become used to them. Every relationship needs space. If you become annoyed with her for not beong with you, It may eventually start to get to her. Honestly, What you have written, You sound a bit needy. Spending time apart is healthy and its how you keep a relationship stronger. If you don't learn to respect that then you will eventually smother her and kill your friendship.
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