So i danced with a guy who i am very close with and also like(alot). We slow danced for about an hour but my friends were constantly signaling him to kiss me. We laughed it off and talked singing the lyrics to the songs they were playing, he flirts with me constantly but he flirts with everyone else, guys and girls its just part of his personality. but a couple of times we would be faceing each other and our eyes would lock, but i am very shy so i ended up looking away everytime. Then after the dance he got really nervous around me and started avoiding me like crazy. Did he try to kiss me and did i blow it? Any suggestions on how to fix this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Friday April 5 2013, 4:57 pm: I remember those days.. :)
but anyways, he probably did want to kiss you, but was just as shy and nervous about it as you were. he probably got even more nervous about it when your friends kept trying to get him to make the first move.. it puts a bit of pressure on him, yuh know ?
but no, i definitely dont think you blew it. if anything, you probably made him realize he has feelings for you.. which is why he was kind of avoiding you towards the end since he didnt kiss you.. after everyone was making a big deal about it.
it will all blow over, trust me. but you should definitely ask him about it! tell him how much of a good time you had with him and that you want to hang out again.. alone this time so that your friends dont make either one of you feel awkward again. maybe even apologize for what your friends were doing and just see how the conversation goes :) but communication is key!
good luck ! xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Wednesday April 3 2013, 7:20 pm: Well I don't think you blew anything so nothing really to worry about. He just sounds nervous. He might have tried to kiss you but I think he just couldn't get the guts to do it.
Just act normal with him and things should be fine. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Emmie125 answered Wednesday April 3 2013, 6:14 pm: He might have, but I wouldn't assume he tried to kiss you just because you guys locked eyes a few times. It definitely seems like he likes you though ;) [ Emmie125's advice column | Ask Emmie125 A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday April 3 2013, 4:26 am: Ya know, Sounds like this dude likes you and webt and told his friends. Also sounds like they might of dared him to kiss you and he chickened out. ;-)
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