|
question
why so naive? Do you think I will do this if there is a chance any evidence or witnesses will be there? Or if there were cameras in the room or something? This is something that is going to be planned far in advance .
First off, she won't have to deal with anything, if she keeps quiet about it. If she doesn't mention it, then she won't have to go through the ordeals of getting a lawyer, going through an investigation, having all this being gossiped about etc.
two, if she goes against me without any proof. this will look bad. It can make other students think "What is to stop a teacher from making any claim against a student and getting them in trouble" Even parents will wonder that. Wondering if it is their own son or daughter that can get falsely accused.
Also, from talking to some other people online about this subject who tend to be knowledgeable about this and they said the teacher actually automatically be believed since she is the adult and the one in control and also they have to be on the lookout for sexual predators (since many exist) and since she is young it is easy to see the line getting blurred
Now it would be different If I was a known trouble maker. But I am not. I have never broken any school rule or misbehaved in school in any way so they have no real reason to automatically suspect me.
I can also definitely afford much better legal representation than hers
also, the best thing about this, her room is at the end of the hall. This is like perfect placement
also, something I am considering, Many weeks in advance of me carrying out this plan, I will go to my guidance counselor and tell him that my teacher might have been making inappropriate advances
towards me. I will word this VERY carefully and make it clear that I could have just been misrepresenting things and tell him not to worry or do anything about it unless something happens again. That way, if I need to tell people she came onto me later, they will know I warned him weeks in advance, and will have to report what I said weeks in advance later. Giving credence to what I say, I don't think I will do this though it seems to harsh and also there is a chance the counselor will go and tell someone about it anyway
in the end though, we are going to plan this far in advance. No way will I be rushed into it
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
You have to understand, I'm not being naive, you are.
You said you won't do this if there is a chance of witnesses or evidence? Then don't do it, because there is always a way to find out, especially at a school.
If there aren't cameras inside, there are cameras outside, where your friends will be at the door.
I don't understand why you would want to hurt your teacher like this.
You know she won't keep quiet about this, especially since she is the victim. If she was coming on to you, that's when she won't go tell anybody.
If she goes against you without any proof, it wouldn't look terribly bad. It's like any other situation. People can accuse anyone of anything. Parents and students can wonder that, but the thing is, they could also think, "What is to stop a student from making any claim against a teacher and getting them in trouble"
It's not impossible for a student to lie about things either.
The teacher will not be automatically believed because people aren't that stupid. They will investigate both of you, not just her. Police will not just believe you because you're a kid..kids lie too you know? And since there are plenty of stories where the student has lied about a teacher, they won't take either side.
They won't automatically suspect you but they won't automatically suspect her either. Your investigation will go on for a while to get to the bottom of it.
If you do go to the guidance counselor in advance, they will talk to the teacher. The guindance counselor can't keep things like that to themselves. They will talk to the teacher, the principal, and the superintendent.
Why do something this terrible to someone?
You might want to think about this a little more.
You will be ruining someones life because you're strangely obsessed with someone, when you are found guilty, you can get charged as a sex offender, even if you don't anything sexual with her. You could be charged as an adult, you could even be put into juvi for a few years and then spend some time in prison.
Honestly, it's not worth it and I think you should get some help because this is not normal.
]
More Questions: |