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My husband and I agree all the time should we splt up?
This is our last big flare up. For a little background we have been married for 12 years. Second marraige for me and third for him. My father-law lives with us but not children. We both. Work for the airlines and are gone a lot.
Now I came home sick from a six day trip. My husband took care of me and he me gt better. I was working on our taxes and he was in the garage. I went I to the garage to tell him the chicken is still frozen and dinner will be late.. He ask me to tell his father. As I was trying to explain I was heading to the basement to pull papers he kept saying tell my father dinner was going to be late. I got so frustrated I slam the door.his father was told about dinner and was ok with it because he makes his own dinner half the time anyway. Later on in the office John,my husband and I got into it again. I ask him if me could come up with a single file system because I spend a lot of time looking for papers with several different files on the same subject. Then I made the comment paper files are out dated. He said in a arty way you like paper that is why you like getting the bank statement sent. Again I get mad because of the attact against me. We argue...I leave he leaves....nothing solved... That night he calls around 7:00pm and I ask if I could meet him for dinner. He said no. He came home around 8:30pm. Took a shower and climb in bed. At that point I took a sleeping pill because I do not want to deal with him. We have a dysfunctional relationship. We do not have sex and have not had sex in over six months. John can not get a hardon. Anyway the next day we argue again. He pushes me buttons. He gets up in my ace. So I punched him, he garbed me threw me down, I bit him and scratched him. Things got thrown and broken. Then him father starts cleaning things up. Like it s none of his business.
So now John left for a trip, we say we want to divorce and right now we no not like each other.....so what should we do? Oh we tried counciling and it does not work. Help
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Sounds like a lot of work and home frustration. Go on vacation. Take a load off and get away from all the work and home and his father. If you need to pay for someone to watch him and the house. Go somewhere romantic and will leave you two alone for a month or two. It'll be like a second honeymoon. Sometimes this works to get all the stress away. Sometimes this all you need. (I do not recommand a cruise. Too much distraction. Go somewhere you two can have fun, is romantic, and you two can be left alone)
Also I don't know if you believe in God or not, but I do. I reccomand praying to him for help.
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