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He had a new gf,3days after we broke up?


Question Posted Thursday March 21 2013, 10:29 am

So,we have been together for about 3months and everything was fine!he was my first bf and he said that he cares for me and things like that!I truly loved and I trusted him but he finally broke my heart in the worst way!He said that he loved me only as a friend and nothing more...He also said that he doesnt want to loose me and that he wants to stay friends but I couldnt stay friends with him like nothing ever happened!!The most painful was the fact that he acted like nothing ever happened and that hurts me most:( (but when we talked for the last time he told me that he was really sad about that but he showed me the opposite)and after 3days we broke up,only 3days he had a new gf and he said that he fell in love!!i cannot undertand how he could love another girl so quickly??he broke my heart and now he seems to be really fine!!Iam kind of fine now because it's overt that he wasnt worth but how he could do something like that to me??does he really love his new gf? Please help me!!Thank youu!!

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lightoftruth answered Thursday March 21 2013, 8:04 pm:
Well once you go through a break up, there will be plenty of questions that will never get answered.
Who knows how he really feels about his new girlfriend? I don't know him.
You already know he wasn't worth your time but now it's time to move on.
You are definitely allowed to feel how you are feeling. You really liked him and then he screwed you over, you're allowed to think that he's a completely heartless jerk.

Don't talk to him anymore and show him that he screwed up on losing you. Find someone better, everything will turn out ok.

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Razhie answered Thursday March 21 2013, 12:32 pm:
None of us can know why he got together with someone else so quickly, and you can't really know either.

A large part of breaking up means not knowing what your ex is thinking or feeling anymore. You don't have any right to that info any longer.

It's okay that it hurts, and its okay think what he did was kinda shitty, but your questions will probably never get really satisfying answers. Learning to accept that is a large part of learning how to be broken up.

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