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what do i do?
hello, im18F
im a student and there's this guy in my class who im crazy about. I liked him since we first met and now after more than six months we have become real good friends. We sit together, and are in the same group in college. I really like him alot but how do i know if he likes me?
I like advising people on their relations but i suck at my own.
I terribly afraid of rejection, and i don't want it to be something just for fun.
I think about him all the time, and i long for a single message everyday.. What's do i do?
PS: im not really pretty or extremely attractive, i feel it may be a reason he may not feel the same:/
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I have almost exactly the same problem and completely get how you feel, because of this I can't offer advice but I can offer moral support. It seems that others find dating and relationships easy but there are others out ther exactly the same as you so hang on in there and just get better friends with this guy, meening that you get to spend more time with him.
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Many people are going to tell you to confess your feelings to him, but I'm going to tell you the opposite. Just continue your relationship and develop it. When a good movie comes to a theater near you, ask him if he wants to go. Go buy some gift cards to a theater then tell him you have a couple of gift cards and ask him if he would like to go to a movie. He will think you got them as a gift. There is a lot of things you can do to get him to spend more time with you and perhaps one day one of those things will lead to a kiss. Many of us guys are stupid at that age and hints just don't work, but what ever you do, don't admit you are crazy about him, it takes away the challenge that should be the pursuit of you. Let him think you are not the one in control, that he is. I know this is probably confusing, but it has worked for many, many thousands of women throughout time. It worked on me. Don't try to speed this up, it sets the relationship on fast forward and takes the magic out of it. If he is a romantic, it could take a lot out of what should be a real great time for you both.
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Well first, don't be so hard on yourself. Don't think of yourself as not being very pretty. Be confident and make sure you feel good about yourself. Guys will always be drawn to confidence.
If you want to know if he likes you, you can either ask him or get to know him better. Like, become closer to him, talk to him more, be friendly and nice. Try hanging out more. Eventually you'll find out who he likes.
Since you are already good friends, it wouldn't be weird to start talking to him more.
Of course, don't be obsessive with messaging him or asking to hang out but every so often is perfect.
Maybe even eventually you two can hang out by yourselves and do something fun. Either get some food or go somewhere.
Anyways, just be confident. I hope everything goes well.
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