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Do I Ask Him Out After Turning Him Down Twice?
So my best friend has asked me out twice in the past and I've said no both times. But within the past 2 months I realized that I think I've fallen in love with him. I was going to talk to him about us possibly being a couple, but he says he likes this other girl (who he's going to prom with) and that he's trying to get over me. The girl who he's going to prom with likes him. So do I bring up to him how I really feel or should I just let him go?
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i know how you feel this guy in high school before i graduated from there he ask me out twice and i turn him down as well. i feel dumb for turning down his love. it's to late to turn time back and start over again.
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At your age, people come and go. In truth, you really don't know how you feel, so how can you tell him. Let it go for now and see if life migrates you back together. I'm not saying to ignore him now, just live as you would. Be well.
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Well, it's up to you but he's into another girl who he's going to prom with and she likes him. If you let him know, don't expect him to jump to that because prom is coming up and he's not going to ditch his date whether he decides to be with you or not.
If you feel like you should let him go, then do so.
Either way, it's up to you and you should do what you feel is right.
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Don't ask him
You turned him down twice in the past, You had your chance. He moved on, found interest in someon else and is going to prom with.
Honestly, Instead of turning the poor guy down ypu should of given him a chance when he asked. It sucks, it really does. However you sort of owe it to the guy to let him be happy. Sometimes we can want but its a bit to late. It would be unfair to him to suddenly express your feelings when he has someone else he likes. Move on and let him be
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If youre prepared to bring up your feelings for him, do. Just let him know- he's a friend, and if he's had feelings for you in the past, he may understand.
However, dont expect the feeling to be returned straight away- be prepared to be turned down, esspecially if he now likes another girl.
Ahhhh the love triangle... I think if the feeling is defienetly not mutal, you should let him go, and return to being friends again. :p
It might be weird at first but once you get over him, you'll both feel way better
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