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sperm scare: She won't have sex with me unless we do it without a condom?
i wanted to ask that i wanted to have sex with my girlfreind she said that if i wore a condom she would not have sex and i fear that she may become pregnant
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Maybe give some free advice about: Condoms?
You should always practice safe sex. Explain to your girlfriend that you don't want to get her pregnant that's why it is very important for you to use a condom if you're going to have sex. If she still refuse to use condoms, you still have options. You can still have sex, a different kind of sex. Ask her if she's open on trying a different kind of sex, like, oral sex or anal sex or even mutual masturbation. You don't need to use condoms and you don't have to worry about getting her pregnant on these type of sex.
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Do not have sex unless you use a condom.
You are not ready, sex should be 50/50 and not based on pressure. If she can't respect that then tell her to find someone else.
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It takes two to tango, and you hold just as much responsibilty as the girl does when consenting to sex, its HAS to be 50/50.
My advice? If you're not ready to become a father, be straight with her. Tell her if you dont wear protection then you wont have sex with her.
Its good that you have values you want to stick to-so make sure you do. TEll her that you're not ready to father a child yet-and that you dont consent unless its with protection.
If she's much of a girlfriend she'd understand. If she takes it bad? She's perhaps not the girl for you as clearly she wants different things from the relationship.
Be straight with her because guys have the same rights as girls when it comes down to it.
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