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it stings so bad to pee! please help!


Question Posted Monday February 11 2013, 3:01 am

I got fingered today for the first time, it felt good but at the same time had a small burning sensation. he started with 1 finger then used 2. sometimes i would feel like if i had gotten scratched but i ignored it. when I went to the restroom to check there was blood on my panties. it didnt hurt at all untill i tried to go pee. oh my! i couldnt even go pee. there was horrible stinging and burning. i tried drying the small amount of pee & i was bleeding a bit. what should i do? im scared to go pee! & did he break my hymen?

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roseyapple answered Monday February 18 2013, 6:11 pm:
It could be one or two things, it could be your hymen or like you said it could be a scratch on the inside, which when you try to go to the toilet, stings because it is passing through the cut. If the pain continues I would suggest talking to your GP.

Also if you were not aroused during the process, it can lead to a type of friction burn.

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rainhorse68 answered Monday February 11 2013, 4:12 pm:
It sounds rather like he did break your hymen, but that's the bit you didn't want to hear over. Good news is it isn't damaging or dangerous and you don't need to be scared of having a pee or anything else. Your hymen could rupture at any time, energetic exercise, horse riding or when a girl masturbates are common offenders. There's a lot of misplaced significance regarding this little membrane. The idea being that rupturing it means you're no longer a virgin. Quite honestly you haven't lost your virginity until you have penetrative sex with a guy. If that's part of what is worrying you, forget it. Stinging when you pee is most likely just irritation from his fingering. Guys can be a bit clumsy and heavy-handed until they 'learn their way around' a girl as it were. There's a slight chance of a local infection if his hands weren't too clean but it is slight. And were NOT talking about a scary sexually transmitted infection here so don't freak out! If it persists too long speak to a chemist or doctor. Chances are it'll calm down on its own. Main things to keep in mind are that you haven't damaged yourself in any way and you haven't spoiled 'losing your virginity' when you choose your Mr Right! Ok?

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Xui answered Monday February 11 2013, 4:12 pm:
Lol....

Sorry but the last answer was just.... eh

If you have a burning sensation while urinating it very well could be a UTI ( urinary tract infection ) if it continues for more then 24 hours I would see a doctor.

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Pol0 answered Monday February 11 2013, 1:34 pm:
Since it is your first time, yes he broke your hymen.

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