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sex dreams
I'm an 18/f
The last three nights I've been having these dreams that include this guy that i was together with 3 years ago. We hooked up three months ago and i didn't mind it i didn't have feelings for him or anything ( i like him as a good friend). I'm totally confused about these dreams i never usually have dreams at all. The dreams have been getting more and more sexual.. I really would like to know why this is happening?
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Dreams are thought pictures. They consist of everything you are thinking of while awake from fears to desires even to things you don't consciously take in. They're also harmless and nothing is wrong here.
The thing is you remember this guy and the sexual encounter from three months ago as something you enjoyed and as a positive experience. Perhaps deep down hidden within you is a desire or a what IF thing going on in your head about him.
Those thoughts are what's coming through in the form of a dream. What it is telling you is that there's something there unresolved about your status with him and have an attraction. Likely, if you talk to him about what he wants friends or otherwise these thoughts will die down and the dreams fade out.
It's normal to have racy dreams about friends, colleagues, people we know in real life and it doesn't always have to mean anything (unless you try acting on it) but in this case it's a memory thing of something pleasant and unresolved issues around it.
Either way you aren't a pervert and it happens to everyone and nothing is wrong. Your brain never goes to sleep even when you do so you get visual representation of thoughts.
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It's happening because you are a human being with a functioning brain.
Dreams have never been proven to 'mean' anything is the prophetic or spiritual sense. Some scientists think dreams are just electrical brain impulses that pull random thoughts and imagery from our memories, and have no purpose or meaning at all.
Others think dreaming might be an important way our brain 'practices' responding to stimulus (like threats) or part of how our mind orders memories and emotions by processing them at night so they don't clutter up our daily activities.
So, you are just human. If you keep a dream diary you might find your most sexually charged dreams crop up at your most fertile time of month.
You also might want to take better care of yourself: If you usually don't recall your dreams, than stress or diet might have thrown off your sleep schedule and be contributing to more intense dreams now. Whenever the mind starts doing something a bit odd, the first thing to consider is how you can best take care of your body.
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It's happening because you are an adult human. I wouldn't read too much into it. Sex dreams (dreams in general) often include random people and situations. There is no reason to think that this represents some kind of hidden desire for this man or anything else. Random stuff happens in dreams that's all.
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