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i like my friend but my other friend wants to go out with the same friend i like... what do I do?
i am a 13/female and i like my friend that my other friend wants to ask out as well. what should i do?
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Well, I don't think you should ask him out. You explain to your friend how you feel and that you're not going to ask your friend out because you value your friendship. At that point, she could still ask that guy out but think about it, would you really want to lose a friend because of a guy? Most likely, the guy won't be around in a couple years so don't do anything about how you feel about this guy.
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WAIT! That's what you have to do. If you ask him out and know she has feelings for him you'll lose them both faster than you can blink. That's always the way it goes down.
Here's what to do: Tell your friend that you both like the same guy and value your friendship a lot more and will not act on those feelings but respect her right to ask him out if she chooses. Once she hears this she will back off of him as well for the sake of friendship.
Sooner or later she will move on to other guys or you will. Then if this guy and yourself were single and interested in each other you could act but not if and until then. Definitely don't ask him out and risk a friendship right now.
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Don't ask him out. In a few years from now, this boy won't matter to either of you anyway, so it's better to forget about him than to risk losing the friendship. Make sure you let her know your feelings though, and hopefully she will take the high road and skip asking him out too.
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Personally I think if you and your friend are close then that really depends if you want to take that risk if you do then maybe she would understand talk to her about it first don't do anything that you would regret hope that's good a enough answer
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