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Fingering? Hymen broken? Painful!
I'm not gonna say our ages but me & my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months & today he fingered me but through my pants, I'm a virgin.. I was wearing leggings so it was a quite thin layer of ''pants''. Well he was just rubbing my vagina (sorry to have detail) but then he started putting my underwear to one side and put his finger all up in there. It felt good but painful at the same time. He did it for at least 20 mins. When he was done I noticeed it felt a bit weird & painful down there. It felt awkward to walk. When I got home I checked and there was brown discharge on my panty liner. I looked in there and my right vagina flap was puffed up & red. I checked inside and it looked quite irriated and bloody.. I tried going pee but it burned so much, what happened? Did I break my hymen? What can I do to get rid of the pain?! Help!
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I don't think you broke your hymen. I think it was from friction because your pants were still on. You can get some medication over the counter for itching/burning and use it to help heal your vulva (the outer part of your vagina). Don't put it in your vagina though. It will be on the aisle where the Monistat is at. I would suggest Vh Essentials Advanced/Sensitive Itching And Irritation Medicated Cream. It is natural. Good luck!
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It's possible your hymen broke, but the redness and burning is probably just small scratches from the friction - sorta like rope burn. Your boyfriend was too rough and/or you weren't lubricated enough. As long as the swelling goes down in a day or so you don't need to worry. If it lasts longer than that, then you should see a doctor, just to be on the safe side.
The best thing you can do manage the pain in the mean time is leave it alone. Maybe a warm bath to sooth it, but no scratching.
And you should gently let your boyfriend know that the activity got a bit too rough for your body.
The brown is just a bit of blood. Maybe from your hymen breaking, maybe from the scratches, or maybe just menstrual blood that got knocked loose by the activity... Blood turns brown, and then nearly black, as it dries. That's not necessarily anything to worry about.
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To see if it is you're best checking with a cotton bud. If you can (sorry if this is graphic) put it up your v with ease for 1-1.5cm then chances are its broken. If you feels a slight cover stopping you though-or see one-then its not.
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