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Question Posted Sunday January 20 2013, 11:49 pm

I am 9 years old can I have sex

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Monday January 21 2013, 2:30 pm:
No.
Plain and simple.

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NinjaNeer answered Monday January 21 2013, 12:31 pm:
The question isn't about whether or not you technically can have sex: anyone can have sex at any age. The question is whether or not you SHOULD.

Sex brings with it a lot of baggage. You probably haven't started menstruating yet, so you can't get pregnant, but that's not the only concern.

No matter what age you are, it's very possible that you can become infected with an STI, or sexually transmitted infection. Some are relatively easily cured, but some stay with you for life, and some can even kill you. The guy's a virgin? Guess what? He could still have a disease that he could pass on. Some people have them at birth.

I get the curiosity about sex (I was curious too, at your age) but there's a big difference between being curious and being ready. There's a lot of emotional weight behind sex, especially your first time, and you don't want to live the rest of your life regretting a decision you made while you were still a kid. The chances of the guy you're considering still being in your life even just a few years from now are pretty low: don't waste your time on him just yet.

You have lots of time to grow up. Take the time to be a kid now, and you'll be glad you did. There's time for adult responsibility later.

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Kirran answered Monday January 21 2013, 4:24 am:
Hey I'm sorry but most 9 year olds haven't even gone through pubity if u know wat it means let alone having sex
But we're do u live?

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nikkimoore1 answered Monday January 21 2013, 3:38 am:
At 9 years old, I wasn't even using a computer or even thinking about sex. NO. You can not have sex. Wait until your 16.

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da1N0nlyfriend answered Monday January 21 2013, 1:48 am:
ok first id like to say why think about sex at 9 years old when you still are a child and could basically have more fun with many other things in life then sex. honestly i feel sorry for you because your brain is all damaged with that thought in your head especially if an adult told you about it. talk to someone that could help you or see a therapist...

hope i helped (:

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