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How to stop being so obsessed with my teacher?
I am deeply attracted to my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is a such a beautiful and perfect lady and very nice to me. I like want to walk by her room and find excuses to
go wherever she is. She is 28 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time
and one of my main fantasies of course is having sex with her. How do I
stop obsessing over her nonstop like this. I am going crazy. I want her so bad but I can't have her. I feel like I am going to explode. This obsession is affecting my life
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Oh do I remember those days. Relax your normal.
When I was in high school we had an English teacher that was only a few years older than most of the Seniors. She was beautiful and every boy in school wanted her. In fact we all knew her as she grew up in the same area as the district the school served and we had all seen her ever summer at the community pool.
Our lust for her came to an abrupt halt when her boyfriend came to school one day. He was in the military, it was during the Vietnam Conflict. We were all in the lunch room including her when he walked in wearing his dress Uniform. He was a Marine Gunnery Sergeant with a chest full of medals. One look at him and the starch came right out of all of us.
Nothing can happen between you, you know that. Its illegal for one thing. So try picturing her as unattainable. Maybe with a husband or boyfriend like my teacher had.
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You stop being so obsessive by telling yourself that she is your teacher and has authority over you. Also, You are a minor and you and your teacher will never have a relationship other then teacher/student. You need to keep telling yourself that and once you except it you will learn to get over it. Also, This teacher of yours may even possibly be involved with someone/ married and have a family of her own. It is not happening and you need to move on.
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