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I don't know why,but I'm confused....
I just dumped my boyfriend of two month's two weeks ago.Why?
Because he told my brother to tell me that we are still together,but he's also dating someone else.I was really hurt.So I broke up with him.I told him to never talk to me,and I gave him all his gifts back.
But the wierd thing is,I miss him,and wish he would talk to me.
I also found out from his best friend that he cheats on alot of girls.
I feel like it's my fault he cheated on me,even though it's not.
He only did it,because I wouldn't kiss him.
I'm just confused as to what I should do.Should I give up,and accept that we were not meant to be?Or should I try to fix things?
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Hun, Im sorry but there's nothing to fix. He cheated on you and cheaters dont deserve anyone as good as a nice girl like yourself. Its normal to miss someone who has been a big part of your life for a while. Try to take your mind off of him. Its not your fault he cheated on you because you wouldnt kiss him. It was something you might have not been completely comfortable with him yet to make that move. I find thats a big move in a relationship. Get some of your friends to help you through this, you deserve much better than a lying cheater. Hope this helps! :) Im always here if you need me.
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What's there to fix?
He lied to you from the beginning, two timed you and then blamed you for his decision to cheat and lie.
There is nothing here to fix. He's an asshole and this was never really a relationship to begin with. You were just one more girl he strung along.
Do really think you could be 'meant to be' with someone who thinks so little of you? Who insults you, lies to you and bullies you like that? Who is so cruel and selfish to other women as well?
I can't think of a single person on earth who deserves to be treated that way.
If he wants to fix himself, then maybe it's a question worth asking - but there is nothing you can do to fix him or the relationship. Let it go.
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Fix it? No. Cheating should never be forgiven. And I mean NEVER. If he really liked you,there would be no reason to cheat on you. I know you're hurt and that you may still have feelings for him. But if you get back with him,he will keep cheating and you will be unhappy. Guys like that don't change. Besides,if his best friend told you so,it must be true,because guys wouldn't normally say that about their best friends. Don't punish yourself with that kind of a relationship and that kind of guy. In time,find a guy who will make sure you know you are all he needs,and who proves it every day. Wasting time on losers is not what you need. You are absolutely not at fault because he cheated. Don't ever feel like that. Hope I helped.
Best wishes,
StarPrincess
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