Question Posted Thursday January 10 2013, 11:30 am
Theres a guy I met last year. At first he would never talk to me just stare at me all the time. It was little creepy but I didnt mind it too much because I was attracted to him. Then one day he came up and started talking to me and from then we would say hi and make small talk. Over the months he gotten more comfortable around me he talks to me more he jokes around and sometimes he even flirts with me. I feel like he likes me but I'm not sure. I found him on facebook and we became friends on there and I message him on their and he answers me back but he never messages me first. He hasnt asked for my number either. The other day we were talking about basketball and he said he wanted to play one-on-one with me. I asked him when he said anytime just let him know. Could that be his way of asking for a date or he is just asking as a friend. Should I use a one-on-one game as a way to get closer to him. What should I do and What should I think about him being so friendly towards me?
It depends really-you know him better than any of us on here! Does he have many friends who are girls? Does he talk about deep things to you sometimes?
I suggest that you definatly accept this basketball game (date) as soon as possible.
If you don't mind me saying, hes probably trying you out to see if you're dating material. And of course this wont be judged by your ability to play basketball-it'll be down to if your a good sport and things. So if you want to get with him- and its sounds like he's interested too, then nows your chance to impress! And why don't you show him abit of interest by asking for his number? It'll serve you great favours! [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Friday January 11 2013, 10:39 am: Use the game to see how he acts with the two of you being one on one. Sounds like he could be interested in you, but perhaps might be shy about it? [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
Pol0 answered Friday January 11 2013, 8:03 am: I'm a boy and i really think he likes you,but i don't understand why you are asking this question. if you like him just wait that he asks you out if not then don't do anything but don't make him too comfortable to you because if he asks you out and you say no it'll break his heart and it takes a lot of time to go over it, believe me I'm 13 but i had more experiences than other people did. [ Pol0's advice column | Ask Pol0 A Question ]
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