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I dont have feelings anymore


Question Posted Thursday January 10 2013, 9:47 am

i feel as i have no soul i feel like someon estole my feelings i dont even care about my family and the boyfriend i loved to death, i just cant seem to love anymore is their anyone who feels the same???

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05natalie05 answered Friday January 11 2013, 2:40 am:
You sound like you're feeling depressed. Everyone feels really sad sometimes, maybe if something has happened (like the death of a loved one, fired from your job, or a sudden change in your life), or sometimes we just feel sad for no reason. If you are a teenager, your hormones can make you feel depressed, especially if you are a female and are going to get your period, or already have your period, or have just finished your period.

How long have you been feeling like this? If it has only been one or two weeks, or less, it isn't right to think it is depression. If you've been feeling this way for more than a month, it might be a bit more serious than just a normal feeling of sadness.

You need to talk to someone about it. Keeping it bottled up will make it worse. Whether it is clinical depression or not, it is still serious that you are feeling like this.
Talk to a family member, or your boyfriend. They care about you and would want to know that you're feeling "empty".
If you think it is having an impact on your day-to-day life, you really should talk to a doctor about it. It is also an excellent idea to talk to a counselor/therapist.

If you are thinking it is depresssion, it is important to know that depression isn't just feeling "empty" or sad like you feel. It can also include (BUT doesn't HAVE TO include all of these things): losing interest in activities, weight changes, feeling very tired all the time or having insomnia (not being able to sleep), feeling physically 'slowed down', feeling worthless or excessively guilty, finding it hard to concentrate, or having suicidal thoughts.
It is important that you don't self-diagnose your self with depression, and actually talk to a doctor about it. Also, if you're having suicidal thoughts, you need to talk to a loved one and a professional.

Hope this helps.

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mercury answered Thursday January 10 2013, 6:10 pm:
I have chronically the same problem. It's up to you to change it. Of course you can try therapy,but you can also try to control it. I bet you still have your feelings inside there in your heart,they cannot forsake you,they never go away. They're just confused because of a certain problem you must be enduring. Hope it helps:)

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directioner4life answered Thursday January 10 2013, 4:56 pm:
Well, im no expert, but it soumds like you might be depressed. Maybe you should try talking to your parents or maybe even a therapist if you think its nessasary. Hope you get out of this funk :)

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